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Chinese New Year With a Toddler: We Didn’t Do It Perfectly - But We Survived It Together
Chinese New Year stretched all of us this year. There was a Chinatown meltdown, car-ride check-ins, overstimulated evenings, and traditions quietly let go. My toddler said he was okay — and also that he wanted to go home. Both were true. We didn’t do it perfectly. But we didn’t lose each other. And in a season full of expectations, that felt like the only tradition worth protecting.

Shirlyn
1 day ago4 min read


A Quiet Conflict: Finding the Balance Between Compassion and Accountability
When compassion meets accountability, balance isn’t loud — it’s quiet, deliberate, and sometimes uncomfortable. Light Finds Balance captures that tension: the meeting of shadow and light, strength and softness, as we learn to hold empathy without losing integrity.

Shirlyn
Nov 12, 20256 min read
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