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A Quiet Conflict: Finding the Balance Between Compassion and Accountability
When compassion meets accountability, balance isn’t loud — it’s quiet, deliberate, and sometimes uncomfortable. Light Finds Balance captures that tension: the meeting of shadow and light, strength and softness, as we learn to hold empathy without losing integrity.

Shirlyn
Nov 12, 20256 min read


Toddler Noise in HDB Flats: Why My Child’s Footsteps Aren’t a Nuisance, They’re Life
A neighbour’s complaint about my toddler’s footsteps made me question how far parents are expected to go to keep the peace. But children’s laughter and stomps aren’t noise — they’re life. Here’s why empathy matters more than silence in HDB living.

Shirlyn
Oct 11, 20256 min read


Inclusive Learning Starts at Home: Everyday Parenting for Raising Respectful Kids
Inclusive learning doesn’t begin in classrooms — it starts at home, in the everyday moments when children watch how we treat others. From fist bumps with cleaners to Baby Sign Language, small acts of respect shape how kids grow into empathetic, inclusive adults.

Shirlyn
Aug 19, 20255 min read


We Turned Out Fine… But Did We Really? Rethinking Generational Parenting Differences
We often say, “We turned out fine” — but did we really? This post explores how children’s behavior has changed across generations, what shaped those shifts, and why today’s parenting calls for more than just repeating what worked for us. From praise-dependence to emotional regulation, let’s unpack how we can raise kids who are not just obedient — but whole.

Shirlyn
Aug 2, 20253 min read
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