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Why "No" Doesn't Work with Toddlers - It's How We Say It
Toddlers often ignore the word “no” — not out of defiance, but because they respond more to tone, body language, and connection than words alone. This post explores what’s really going on when we say “no,” why it often backfires, and what to do instead.

Shirlyn
Oct 94 min read


Grace in Parenting: Grace for Our Kids, Grace for Ourselves
We expect silence from children, speed from elders, and perfection from parents - but life has always been noisy, slow, and messy where it matters most. This reflection is a call to patience and compassion: grace for our kids as they grow, grace for ourselves as we stumble, and grace for others along the way.

Shirlyn
Aug 192 min read


Why Our Energy Becomes Our Child’s Energy: Co-Regulation in Real Life
Bedtime battles, bursts of energy, and moments of calm - our children mirror the energy we bring. This post explores co-regulation, why our moods are contagious, and simple ways to help kids find calmer rhythms.

Shirlyn
Aug 155 min read


We Turned Out Fine… But Did We Really? Rethinking Generational Parenting Differences
We often say, “We turned out fine” — but did we really? This post explores how children’s behavior has changed across generations, what shaped those shifts, and why today’s parenting calls for more than just repeating what worked for us. From praise-dependence to emotional regulation, let’s unpack how we can raise kids who are not just obedient — but whole.

Shirlyn
Aug 23 min read
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