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Toddler Noise in HDB Flats: Why My Child’s Footsteps Aren’t a Nuisance, They’re Life
A neighbour’s complaint about my toddler’s footsteps made me question how far parents are expected to go to keep the peace. But children’s laughter and stomps aren’t noise — they’re life. Here’s why empathy matters more than silence in HDB living.

Shirlyn
Oct 116 min read
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Why Our Energy Becomes Our Child’s Energy: Co-Regulation in Real Life
Bedtime battles, bursts of energy, and moments of calm - our children mirror the energy we bring. This post explores co-regulation, why our moods are contagious, and simple ways to help kids find calmer rhythms.

Shirlyn
Aug 155 min read
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The Night the Tea Fell — And What It Taught Me About Toddlers, Accidents, and Trust
When my toddler swiped my cup of tea across the table, it wasn’t just porcelain that shattered - it was a reminder of how little eyes watch, learn, and carry our responses with them. This is a story of accidents, aftershocks, and the surprising ways love and calm leave the deepest imprint.

Shirlyn
Aug 154 min read
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