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When Toddlers Don’t Open Their Presents (And Why It’s Not About You)
When a toddler opens one present and stops, it’s easy for adults to read meaning into that pause — ingratitude, disinterest, or missed manners. But for young children, stopping is often a sign of regulation, not rejection. This piece explores why some toddlers stay deeply with one gift, what brain science tells us about attention and capacity, and why slowing down may be exactly what they need.

Shirlyn
7 days ago6 min read


Toddler Noise in HDB Flats: Why My Child’s Footsteps Aren’t a Nuisance, They’re Life
A neighbour’s complaint about my toddler’s footsteps made me question how far parents are expected to go to keep the peace. But children’s laughter and stomps aren’t noise — they’re life. Here’s why empathy matters more than silence in HDB living.

Shirlyn
Oct 11, 20256 min read


Why Our Energy Becomes Our Child’s Energy: Co-Regulation in Real Life
Bedtime battles, bursts of energy, and moments of calm - our children mirror the energy we bring. This post explores co-regulation, why our moods are contagious, and simple ways to help kids find calmer rhythms.

Shirlyn
Aug 15, 20255 min read


The Night the Tea Fell — And What It Taught Me About Toddlers, Accidents, and Trust
When my toddler swiped my cup of tea across the table, it wasn’t just porcelain that shattered - it was a reminder of how little eyes watch, learn, and carry our responses with them. This is a story of accidents, aftershocks, and the surprising ways love and calm leave the deepest imprint.

Shirlyn
Aug 15, 20254 min read
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